Please accept my condolences for the loss of your wife, Mother, Grandmother and dear friend to many. I know she encouraged my Mother (Martha) as she also battled breast cancer. They had spoken on the phone a couple of weeks prior to my Mom's passing. My Mom spoke of their lifetime friendship and what it meant to have someone like her to laugh, cry and share so many memories over the years. Knowing that my Mom and Barbara are together in heaven gives me peace. To know your Mom is in the loving ams of our God, out of pain, no longer suffering and knowing one day we will be with our parents to spend our days in eternity with them when he calls us home. God be with you all.